Go to 10:47 to watch, "The Importance of Not Rewarding a Child's Anger
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Timestamps:
00:00 Joy of being with people who really want to change.
00:37 Continue to be teachable and trust rather than agonizing over the past.
07:40 Shame and guilt are different, but become inseparable when you start with shame.
10:47 Do not reward a child's anger.
13:14 Mother successfully applies RL principles when daughter misses ride to school.
17:46 When thinking about death, decide what you believe about the important things first, then details.
23:21 Kids who are loved can see the truth about criticism and anger without fear.
24:49 Trust is just words until it changes your behavior.
25:56 3-year-old is possessive and aggressive; what we want to teach kids is how to be happy.
28:55 Practical examples of teaching the 3-year-old to be loving and responsible.
36:32 Things we can talk about without bringing up the past old stories.
38:38 Man learns to recognize the effect of his anger; now can express his natural joy.
40:02 Man lets go of victimhood after a wise person doesn’t answer a call. People really don't have to explain themselves, and we can still feel loved.
43:24 Pain makes us blind, crazy, and detached. Get more focused on personal relationships in order to heal.
45:41 Woman realizes she enjoys the power of 'breaking people.'
48:40 When we don't consider the feelings of others, we make our own situation worse.
