Finding Real Love®

There’s only one kind of love that can fill us up, make us whole, and give us the happiness we all want: 

Unconditional Love or Real Love

How can you find Real Love? Read below to discover all the resources you need to start living the joyous life you deserve.

Steps to Finding Real Love

As people learn the principles of Real Love, they almost uniformly ask how they can find and feel the real thing.
They want to feel the actual power of Real Love, which is far more fulfilling than simply learning principles.

It's the FEELING of Real Love that changes lives, not just the intellectual understanding of the concepts.
Fortunately, there are many ways we can find Real Love and experience its healing power.

Step 1: Study

Step 2: Watch

Step 3: Talk


  • You’ll find you are not alone.
  • You can learn from other people's mistakes and insights.
  • You get to tell the truth without anybody judging you.
  • You'll feel more loved and be a happier partner, parent and friend.
  • You get an opportunity to connect with others who are learning to find and share Real Love.

Join or Start a Real Love Group

Connect with others on Social Media Sites

Step 4: Explore

Explore and learn from the oodles of resources and educational opportunities provided in the Learning Center— Greg's Top Ten, for example.
We have gone to great length to provide as much Real Love material and as many resources as possible to everyone at no cost whatever. Make use of it.
The more you study these true, life-giving principles, the more you tend to feel the power that emanates from them.

Step 5: Real Love Intervention Coaching with Greg

Contact us for more information.


What they say...

It's incredible & unbelievable

" It's incredible and unbelievable. If I could just do an ounce of what you do I would be satisfied. You do so much and have given crushed, broken, dead souls life even when there was never a hope of recovery. Its incredible. 

My life is unrecognizable because of Real Love."

Yvonne S.



Real Love changed my life... 

" I’ve read a lot of books about relationships and happiness, but after reading Real Love, I put away all the other books. Your books and your messages in your video chats have completely changed my life and outlook in all areas of my life.  I appreciate this more than I can say. "

Gordon T.

( Oregon)


I feel more free...

" Real Love is THE missing piece of the puzzle—in life and relationships. It has changed my life forever—my spiritual life, my marriage, my children. Everything is different. I feel more free. I’m happier. The anger that once held me prisoner is gone."


( Kansas)


What readers and listeners say about Real Love:

Jordan Peterson
January 10, 2024

5.0 out of 5 stars Saved me and my marriage

This book was recommended by a friend. It saved me and my marriage. I was in a funk and this book offered the change in perspective I needed to be more positive. I would and have recommended this to others.

Yvonne Abad
September 12, 2023

5.0 out of 5 stars Life-changing

This book is amazing. It’s the best perfect book to read with your partner. It helps you and gives you the understanding about real love exactly what the title is. I recommend this book for every person that is lacking their foreign doesn’t know about real love. It does exist.

Sandra Andrus
April 28, 2023

5.0 out of 5 stars Love this book

This is one of my favorite books. It’s very insightful about why we act the way we do when we want something from another person. And why we treat them poorly when we don’t get our way. I think it’s the kind of book anyone can benefit from read. I like it so much that I bought this copy for a friend.

September 6, 2022


First pages in and i was already crying. Should be taught in school As i was reading i started to worry about the teachings not applying to me with PtSd and childhood trauma. How would this work well for those out of the “norm.” First off I learned a lot and it was things i had no idea about. That is huge. However it was the last few pages that i learned that no matter how this Real love is applied if the significant other is lying, manipulating and cant tell the truth even after sharing this or has little to know interest in learning. Run like the wind. Biggest take away… if this other person cant say they are sorry , if they cant admit they are wrong they can’t learn anything. How can you learn anything if your already right about everything. Red flag.. run like the wind.

David G. Allen
August 28, 2022

finally helped me learn what other great people have been trying to teach me for years

This book fits well into understanding the concept of unconditional love regardless of faith. Though it is clear that those who appreciate Real Love strongly enough will find themselves more drawn to the life and teaching of Jesus. If you want to really make a safe and secure home life for your family (in their inner and external worlds) you need this information

June 20, 2022

Real Love By Greg Baer

This book has an amazing message. The principles that, Greg brings up are something we have all experienced in our lifetimes, in small doses and interspersed with ours and others, “Getting and Protecting,” behaviors. It almost seems too simple; however, I am reminded of the phrase, “it’s simple but, not easy.”

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