Finding Real Love®

There’s only one kind of love that can fill us up, make us whole, and give us the happiness we all want: 

Unconditional Love or Real Love

How can you find Real Love? Read below to discover all the resources you need to start living the joyous life you deserve.

Steps to Finding Real Love

As people learn the principles of Real Love, they almost uniformly ask how they can find and feel the real thing.
They want to feel the actual power of Real Love, which is far more fulfilling than simply learning principles.

It's the FEELING of Real Love that changes lives, not just the intellectual understanding of the concepts.
Fortunately, there are many ways we can find Real Love and experience its healing power.

Step 1: Study

Step 2: Watch

Step 3: Talk


  • You’ll find you are not alone.
  • You can learn from other people's mistakes and insights.
  • You get to tell the truth without anybody judging you.
  • You'll feel more loved and be a happier partner, parent and friend.
  • You get an opportunity to connect with others who are learning to find and share Real Love.

Join or Start a Real Love Group

Connect with others on Social Media Sites

Step 4: Explore

Explore and learn from the oodles of resources and educational opportunities provided in the Learning Center— Greg's Top Ten, for example.
We have gone to great length to provide as much Real Love material and as many resources as possible to everyone at no cost whatever. Make use of it.
The more you study these true, life-giving principles, the more you tend to feel the power that emanates from them.

Step 5: Real Love Intervention Coaching with Greg

Contact us for more information.


What they say...

It's incredible & unbelievable

" It's incredible and unbelievable. If I could just do an ounce of what you do I would be satisfied. You do so much and have given crushed, broken, dead souls life even when there was never a hope of recovery. Its incredible. 

My life is unrecognizable because of Real Love."

Yvonne S.



Real Love changed my life... 

" I’ve read a lot of books about relationships and happiness, but after reading Real Love, I put away all the other books. Your books and your messages in your video chats have completely changed my life and outlook in all areas of my life.  I appreciate this more than I can say. "

Gordon T.

( Oregon)


I feel more free...

" Real Love is THE missing piece of the puzzle—in life and relationships. It has changed my life forever—my spiritual life, my marriage, my children. Everything is different. I feel more free. I’m happier. The anger that once held me prisoner is gone."


( Kansas)


What readers and listeners say about Real Love:

September 6, 2022


First pages in and i was already crying. Should be taught in school As i was reading i started to worry about the teachings not applying to me with PtSd and childhood trauma. How would this work well for those out of the “norm.” First off I learned a lot and it was things i had no idea about. That is huge. However it was the last few pages that i learned that no matter how this Real love is applied if the significant other is lying, manipulating and cant tell the truth even after sharing this or has little to know interest in learning. Run like the wind. Biggest take away… if this other person cant say they are sorry , if they cant admit they are wrong they can’t learn anything. How can you learn anything if your already right about everything. Red flag.. run like the wind.

David G. Allen
August 28, 2022

finally helped me learn what other great people have been trying to teach me for years

This book fits well into understanding the concept of unconditional love regardless of faith. Though it is clear that those who appreciate Real Love strongly enough will find themselves more drawn to the life and teaching of Jesus. If you want to really make a safe and secure home life for your family (in their inner and external worlds) you need this information

June 20, 2022

Real Love By Greg Baer

This book has an amazing message. The principles that, Greg brings up are something we have all experienced in our lifetimes, in small doses and interspersed with ours and others, “Getting and Protecting,” behaviors. It almost seems too simple; however, I am reminded of the phrase, “it’s simple but, not easy.”

Vera F.
January 13, 2022

This book will change your life for the MUCH better!

This is a most remarkable book . The world would be a better place if people understood what's in this book. Your world will be a better, much sweeter world, if you read this book. My husband has turned in to the sweetest man overnight.

Colleen Sollars
October 3, 2020

Even if you think you know

I've read a lot of books. I've had a lot of therapy. I picked up this book and within two or three pages I'd highlighted several passages. Dr. Baer has a way of tapping into a soft place in my heart and cultivating love and compassion. I've already bought copies for a couple of family members, it's that good. I'm writing this before finishing the book because it's affected me in such a profound way already. Reading it so far has been like being enveloped in a big hug.

January 25, 2020

Outstanding and Life Changing

Outstanding. Life changing. I’ve given copies to everyone I care about and love. So grateful to better understand getting and protecting behaviors.

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