Real Love and Personal Growth

Why Real Love and Personal Growth?

  • You'll lose your addictions to food, alcohol, drugs, sex, and more.
  • You won't get irritated at the many little things that bother you now.
  • You'll discover who you REALLY are.
  • You will replace fear and anger with peace and confidence in your life. That’s a miraculous feeling!


Worry a lot?

Do you feel overwhelmed by the sorrows and inconveniences in life? Do you find yourself feeling and acting dramatic about these events?

Sense that something is missing?

Is there a feeling of emptiness in your life that you can’t describe and you don’t know why it's there?

Live in the past and in fear?

Are you constantly living in the past and fearful of repeating the same mistakes over and over again? Do you feel fearful about too many things?

How Do You Know Our Personal Growth Advice is for You?

Everywhere we look, there are so many signs that something is seriously amiss in our society: as many as 20% of us are addicted to alcohol or drugs of some kind; one of nine men will spend some time of his life in prison; nearly 60% of our marriages end in divorce; 41% of ninth-grade students reported drinking alcohol in the past month; one-quarter of all adolescents contract a sexually transmitted disease before they graduate from high school; and 4 out of every 10 girls in the U.S. will become pregnant at least once while in their teens, with 80% of these pregnancies being unintended.

What is wrong here? What are people missing in their lives that causes them to act out in all these unhealthy ways? Regrettably, we have tended to see all these behaviors as separate problems, and because of our near-sightedness, we have been quite unsuccessful in resolving them.

  • Do you have a hard time feeling happy and enjoying life?
  • Do you carry around feelings of guilt and shame — for things you did and didn’t do, for the people you’ve hurt?
  • Do you find yourself constantly getting into arguments and conflicts with your spouse, kids, and co-workers — even total strangers in traffic?
  • Do you keep attracting the wrong people and can’t seem to make a happy, fulfilling and peaceful relationship last?
  • Do you wonder why you feel the way you do, why you make the decisions you make? And you wish you could be clear about what drives you?

We'll help you discover who you really are and eliminate fear from your life so you can enjoy genuine emotional health and richly fulfilling relationships with your partner, friends and others. Now you can finally do something that will transform your life and relationships forever.

  • You'll lose your addictions to food, alcohol, drugs, sex, and others.
  • You won’t get irritated at the many little things that bother you now.
  • You’ll discover who you really are, which fewer than 1% of people realize now.
  • You’ll enjoy a richly fulfilling relationship with your partner, friends and others.
  • You will eliminate fear from your life. That’s a miraculous feeling!

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Real Love book cover.

What is the secret something all relationships need to thrive? Greg Baer found the answer to this question and more and shares an enlightening and practical blueprint for creating successful relationships as we walk the path to finding and keeping what he calls "Real Love."

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Real Love CompanionTaking steps toward a loving and happy life.

Intellectual understanding of the principles in Real Love is exciting, but our lives really change only when we apply these principles to ourselves and take the steps to find and feel Real Love. This is a companion workbook for Real Love. It's where the "rubber meets the road."

Real Love and Freedom for the Soul

At the root of all our anger and our problems in relationships is our belief that we have been victimized: we believe we've been hurt, slighted, or treated unfairly. In this book you'll learn about the disease of victimhood and how you can achieve a level of freedom and peace you never thought possible.


What they say...

Yvonne S.Uk

Real Love is incredible and unbelievable...

its incredible and unbelievable. If i could just do an ounce of what you do i would be satisfied. You do so much and have given crushed, broken, dead souls life even when there was never a hope of recovery. Its incredible. 

My life is unrecognizable because of Real Love.

Elin M. OR

Real Love brings peace...

Dr. Greg Baer is someone we should all have the gift of knowing and learning from. He has THE KEY, and all the answers to relationship issues that you'll ever need... because they are based in love, the most powerful, forgiving, flourishing force in the universe.

What the readers and listeners say...

June 20, 2022

This book has an amazing message. The principles that, Greg brings up are something we have all experienced in our lifetimes, in small doses and interspersed with ours and others, “Getting and Protecting,” behaviors. It almost seems too simple; however, I am reminded of the phrase, “it’s simple but, not easy.”

Vera F.
January 13, 2022

This is a most remarkable book . The world would be a better place if people understood what's in this book. Your world will be a better, much sweeter world, if you read this book. My husband has turned in to the sweetest man overnight.

Colleen Sollars
October 3, 2020

I've read a lot of books. I've had a lot of therapy. I picked up this book and within two or three pages I'd highlighted several passages. Dr. Baer has a way of tapping into a soft place in my heart and cultivating love and compassion. I've already bought copies for a couple of family members, it's that good. I'm writing this before finishing the book because it's affected me in such a profound way already. Reading it so far has been like being enveloped in a big hug.

January 24, 2020

Outstanding. Life changing. I’ve given copies to everyone I care about and love. So grateful to better understand getting and protecting behaviors.

January 1, 2020

This is one of the best books I’ve ever read. It changed my life. I am happier and healthier because of reading it and applying it to my life and relationships. I highly recommend it to everyone!

lil' ebe
September 6, 2019

I liked the background to why relationships are so difficult. The concept of unconditional love vs. conditional love is very clear...we all have partially empty buckets until we learn to focus on the unconditional love, according to Baer, the author. Once you begin to remember the unconditional love sources, then you can give love to those who are still trying to survive on conditional love or Imitation love sources such as food, drugs, affairs, alcohol, fame...and other such temporary fixes.

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Sidne J. O'reilly
February 29, 2016

What an eye opener! Truly a must read.

Sarah Sill
July 8, 2015

You will see yoyrself in these pages! When you recognize the negative role you play in your own life, you awaken to the joyous idea that you can stop. Victim behavior never gets you your desired result: Real Love.

June 19, 2015

I finally understand things so much better.

March 25, 2015

This book illuminates very clearly why we suffer and then gives us a very clear way out of it!

Lisa Wendy
November 26, 2014

An eye opening and amazing revelation - discovering that life can be so much fun and happy is quite liberating!

Holly Foote
February 16, 2014

Absolutely a "must read" book for everyone. I had no idea how many of my normal comments are used to et attention from others and expose me as a victim. I have tried the tools given in the book and am deligted with the results. My relationships are becoming stress free and people are responding to me in such a wonderful positive way. This has changed my life.

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