How Do I Find Real Love? – Top Ten #7

How can you find Real Love? There’s only one kind of love that can fill us up, make us whole, and give us the happiness we all want: Unconditional Love or Real Love.

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In questions one through six of the top 10, I established that in order to be happy, what we need most is Real Love, unconditional love and that the lack of that essential element is the primary cause of our individual unhappiness and the disappointment and conflict in our relationships. So there is nothing we could do that would be more important than finding and sharing Real Love nothing.

But now the practical question: how do we find this Real Love that fills us up, eliminates emptiness and fear and anger, and transforms our relationships? Fortunately, the path to Real Love is not complicated.

Telling the Truth About Yourself Helps You Find Real Love

What we all want most is to feel loved unconditionally, that one's easy. But how can you feel loved by me unless you first feel accepted by me? Loving is a more active version of accepting and how can you feel accepted by me unless you first feel like I see who you really are, and how can I see who you really are? Unless you tell me the truth about yourself, when you tell me the truth about yourself, when you share that with me, especially about your mistakes and flaws, you create opportunities for me to see you, accept you, and love you unconditionally, and that can change your whole world.

Remember, your emptiness and fear, your anger, your unhappiness and the problems you have in relationships are caused by a lack of Real Love. If you will do whatever it takes to get sufficient Real Love, you will experience a level of happiness personally, and in your relationships that you can scarcely imagine now. As you immerse yourself in RealLove.com, you will learn many, many ways to share the truth about yourself and find this Real Love that will change your life.