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Topics covered in this Video Chat:
00:00 How to love someone who is grieving a death or loss in the family.
04:10 Grieving is really about feeling the loss of love, as is all loss.
07:20 Feeling loved is yummy.
11:29 How important it is to trust and feel intrinsically safe.
17:12 The more we focus on pain/fear/anger the worse it gets.
24:24 CEO helps his worker to see her choices with a negative co-worker.
26:30 4 yr old makes a request of her little brother, rather than a demand.
28:11 The loving choice after a break-up.
30:57 The pain of childhood neglect leads to staying in an abusive relationship.
38:04 An example of trusting after a lifetime of living in your head.
48:22 Being a trapped hostage to other people happens when you’re a pathological people pleaser.
55:04 No fear, no anger, no confusion, no past in a relationship.