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Millions of us are out there looking for the “right person”—in bars, at parties, in clubs, at church, and on Internet dating sitesread more

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Nearly 60% of marriages in the United States end in divorce, and of the marriages that survive more than 50% say they would split more

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One of the most important responsibilities we will ever take upon us, and yet what training do we receive for this awesome task?read more

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Everywhere we look, there are so many signs that something is seriously amiss in our society: Nearly 60% of our marriages end in more

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In the vast majority of businesses, the expression “People are our most important asset” is little more than a plaque on the more

Greg Baer on stage giving Real Love in the Workplace seminar

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Greg's Words of Wisdom

 “Listening is a sacred experience. When you really listen to another person, they often hand you their soul."
January 28, 2015
 “We reveal who we are by how we treat those who are wounded and broken, not by how we treat those strong enough to care for us. "
Feb. 3, 2015
 "We’re not wounded by the trials and mistakes that are unavoidable in life. We’re wounded by how we then attack our own sense of worth, and by how we allow others to do so. "
March 3, 2015
"All that is beautiful in us comes from love. So why would we ever want to behave in unloving ways and be ugly? "
April 3, 2015

From Greg's Blog

  • Trusting Love

Trusting Love

  • May 22nd, 2015

There is so very little benefit in exploring the details of past wounds, whereas [...]

  • Resentment


  • May 18th, 2015

Resentment about not getting love from people who don't have it is like being [...]

What Clients Say

I LOVE the video chats. I learn so much, and a lot of the time I laugh myself sick. The way Greg describes the truth about our behavior is hilarious. I listen to them while I’m walking, sitting, sleeping, all the time. Over and over. Keep ‘em coming.
Marina Murtagh, Ireland
My wife and I had gotten to a critical place in our marriage, where neither of us was sure we were going to make it. After one hour with Greg, our entire attitude changed, and now we’re back to being loving with each other. Dang, he makes it so simple and practical that you can hardly fail. 
Bruce F., Georgia
I want to thank you for providing the most amazing weekend in my life. Your amazing sense of humor made the event entertaining as well as informative. Your dedication to loving and teaching is inspiring.Thank you for providing me the path out of hopelessness. I am ALL IN. This process is going to change my life.
Vikki B, San Diego
After attending decades of trainings, seminars and workshops, the weekend with you was uniquely refreshing. The time flashed by, and you were wonderfully entertaining, as well as brutally honest and open. I learned a ton and enjoyed every minute. You are a wonderful role model for all who are learning about Real Love.
Tim G., therapist
We use the video chats every day for the entire Real Love community in our country. We take quotes from them, pass them around by email, and talk about them. Couldn’t live without them.
Pete Uglow, England
For three hours, I was glued to my seat. This is fantastic.
San Francisco
I can’t wait for Greg to return. When he does, I’m bringing all my friends.
St. Petersburg, Florida
Amazing! I learned more in three hours than I did after years of counseling and reading books.
Video chats give me the chance to see Greg, hear him, and feel that he is speaking directly to ME (no matter what the topic), all in the privacy and convenience of my own home. Trusting that I can learn how to be happy is a daily practice. The inspiration, fun, and love I feel from Greg on the video chats helps me feel encouraged enough to keep going.

PS: sometimes my daughter will walk by while I'm watching, and make comments about the topic.  It has led us to some great discussions.

Susan Dunn, California
Because of this seminar, I’m learning how to love my husband and children better. Our whole family is happier.
Never before have I seen an audience respond as they did today with Dr. Baer. Never. They couldn’t get enough. It was an amazing thing to watch.
Memphis, Tennessee