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Topics covered in this Video Chat:
00:00 The devastating effect of disapproval on a child, how parents can admit they are wrong
10:20 Learning to laugh at our behaviors so the shame can heal
12:00 As we learn to listen to others, more joy as well as seeing people's pain clearly
14:40 Huge gap between wants (making requests) and needs/demands (expectations)
18:58 The more words we use, the more we want to be right. Fewer words, be wrong, stop the injuries.
25:20 No fear, no anger, no confusion, no past
25:50 Greg teaches 9-year-old about Law of Choice so she can be happy
34:56 Parents loving and teaching their 2-year-old, giving him choices
38:35 Man lists old, hopeless judgments and new, hopeful judgments
47:20 People liking things orderly isn't being controlling
54:40 Mom helps daughter remember what's true