Video Chat 193

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Topics covered in this Video Chat:

00:00 Guidelines in groups are for increasing the love that can be given and received.

06:18 Victims define listening as getting what they want.

08:30 Choosing to love means giving freely and giving as much as we can.

12:10 A people-pleaser fears she will never have a 'personality'; develop it by taking chances.

17:00 You can never make victims happy so love her as well as you can.

19:15 People who demand explanations are never satisfied. Woman learns how to not let herself feel trapped by daughter's expectations that she babysit the grandchildren.

28:38 Creating a 'Freedom List' of all the behaviors they are letting go of.

32:24 We are taught from childhood that we have to answer our parents' questions.

35:31 Greg shares stories of his grandchildren, who are growing up unconditionally loved.

37:46  Commitment: men are more diligent about avoiding pain and run away, and women are more optimistic and try to control relationships.

43:22 Why therapy has a terrible rate of success–wounds are exposed but there is no healing.

45:00 Recognizing when we have the capacity to be loving or not and then making a decision.

48:17 Wife talks constantly and husband wants to know how to love her and preserve his ability to love.

52:30 Woman decides to tell the truth of how she was wrong with former supervisor.


Marriage, Parenting, Personal Growth, Workplace

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About the author 

Greg Baer, M.D.

I am the founder of The Real Love® Company, Inc, a non-profit organization. Following the sale of my successful ophthalmology practice I have dedicated the past 25 years to teaching people a remarkable process that replaces all of life's "crazy" with peace, confidence and meaning in various aspects of their personal lives, including parenting, marriages, the workplace and more.