Recently my three-year-old grandson Bruce was helping me load some wood onto a pile. While holding above his head a log about three inches in diameter and weighing several pounds, he declared, āI am strong.ā He was so proud of himself and obviously having fun.
What Bruce said was trueāhe is strong for his ageābut he left out the other things he might have said that also would have been true:
āIām only two and a half feet tall.ā
āPeople tell me what to do all day.ā
āSometimes I wet the bed.ā
āMy vocabulary and clarity of speech are somewhat limited.ā
I believe weād all be happier if we were more like this three-year-old. We all have gifts that are both beautiful and useful. Remembering thoseāand focusing on developing themāis far more useful than fussing about our mistakes and shortcomings.