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Topics discussed:
00:00 We behave badly because we're in pain and don't know what works better.
05:19 Telling people to stop their behavior doesn't work because they don't know what else to do.
08:19 We need people to love and teach us another way when we feel helpless.
09:29 How to respond to a child who bullies and manipulates.
18:15 Applying consequences to children that throw tantrums.
24:42 People pleasing is an addiction.
26:53 Why do we have to deal with addictions?
28:15 We really do get to choose what we want.
33:56 We don't need to argue with people who want to be right.
41:46 We don't know how distracted we are until we stop the distractions.
50:19 Teaching children consequences for their choices.