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Topics discussed:
00:00 The miracle that happens when we change our perspective to be more loving.
05:47 How to show your partner you're really listening.
17:08 Complaining is lazy and comes from feeling hopeless.
21:30 Loving and teaching involves helping people see their unloving behaviors with no guilt.
27:55 Hosting a Real Love group takes guts and real change requires effort.
30:01 It's reasonable to address only 1 thing a day with a partner, with no fear.
34:40 Find solutions rather than complaining about your partner's preferences.
36:36 One partner is usually more capable of learning, so they have to change first.
40:55 The difference between hope and expectations.
42:14 Teaching a 2-year old about delayed gratification.
50:04 Children are free to be creative when they feel loved.
51:47 Our world is very small when we are in pain and afraid - like drowning.
55:14 People that are very wounded need to wait before they start dating.