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Topics covered in this Video Chat:
00:00 RL news
01:00 Choice is at the center of everything; seeing the choice and having the ability to make the choice.
08:15 Spending or not spending time with a toxic family.
11:44 Transference – how our past affects our present relationships
14:04 Sylvie story – frazzled mother of 3 young kids, wise kids.
18:00 Addicted to giving advice – how to deal with it.
25:10 Kid angry that father is gone; kids just want to know they are loved.
31:22 Addiction of looking good; 2 most important qualities in finding a partner
38:29 Claims that someone is an unconditionally loving person are almost never true.
39:53 When talking with an ex, how you feel is more important than the words you say.
43:20 Group member wants to talk about other philosophers.
46:27 It’s ok to grieve when a loved one dies; love everybody who’s left behind.
48:43 How to stop a victim from taking over a group or a conversation.
54:45 Don’t overanalyze childhood; we’re here to love and teach, not listen to pain.