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Topics covered in this Video Chat:
00:00 To prepare for a RL workshop, be willing to learn and trust.
02:21 Say something often enough it becomes true - like wallowing in muck.
08:51 Teaching a baby not to hurt you.
13:32 Don’t indulge feelings of hopelessness longer than a day.
15:18 Choosing to feel alive and warm without sexualizing things.
17:41 Instead of comparing ourselves. we can be humble and proud.
19:28 Don't over-analyze an experience when you’re crazy, just start again.
22:46 Kids love routine and unsolicited attention at bedtime.
29:50 RL is a miracle so it makes sense to maximize the benefits with the right wise person.
35:09 "Why" questions are really about wanting to be loved.
38:17 A kid that's loved lets someone else go first and is learning to care about her sibling.
40:09 When we feel loved we slowly uncover our wounds, line upon line.
42:55 A parent's role is Always to love the child, not the other way around.
44:42 A little girl understands tender love, because she's not wounded.
45:58 How kindness can be manipulative.
50:40 Teach children about life by sharing stories of our mistakes and what we learned.
53:23 Until we really feel RL with someone, we can't afford the distraction of dating.