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Topics covered in this Video Chat:
00:00 Brief introduction
00:53 Man shares what he learned from Real Love: his faults, loving a controlling wife.
12:18 Control issues can’t become worse after a divorce unless you participate in them.
13:19 Fear of being hurt interferes with trusting and feeling loved; what it means to trust.
20:28 Wife is angry at her cheating husband; in reality, she traded with him.
28:11 Fear of her parent’s disapproval kept a woman from being herself in her own home.
35:09 When asking for what you want becomes nagging and demanding.
36:38 Woman gets attention by getting laid, wants to change but doesn’t know how to do it.
44:26 Neither partner wants to take responsibility for making a decision.
46:59 Remembering you are still loved when feeling judged, doubted, & people are angry at you.
49:18 Hard time staying full of Real Love at work; suggestions.
50:32 Mother is afraid to teach Real Love principles for fear of losing son to his permissive dad.
57:42 The benefits of video chats and the most important benefit.