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Topics covered in this Video Chat:
00:00 Brief introduction
00:53 Man shares what he learned from RL: his faults, loving a controlling wife
12:18 Control issues can’t become worse after a divorce unless you participate in them
13:19 Fear of being hurt interferes with trusting and feeling loved, what it means to trust
20:28 Wife angry at her cheating husband; in reality, she made a trading deal with him
28:11 Fear of parents’ disapproval kept a woman from being herself in her own home
35:09 When asking for what you want becomes nagging and demanding
36:38 Woman gets attention by getting laid, wants to change but doesn’t know how to go about it
44:26 Neither partner wants to take responsibility to make a decision
46:59 Remembering you are still loved when feeling judged, doubt, & people are angry at you
49:18 Hard time staying full of RL at work; suggestions
50:32 Mother afraid to teach RL principles for fear of losing son to his permissive dad
57:42 The benefits of the video chats and the most important benefit