Video Chat 141

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Topics covered in this Video Chat:

00:00 We don't like to feel helpless, so we get angry and feel temporarily powerful

04:40 It is selfish every time we become irritated

05:16 Mistakes are the price we pay for growth, and sometimes they hurt or inconvenience others

13:20 In many things in life you get what you pay for, including hiring a coach or not

18:04 Real listening has no goal for ourselves, it's caring about the other person

22:12 Selfishness is the natural child of starvation and not feeling loved

23:21 Most teenagers aren't "insane", they are in pain - so keep loving them

30:55 Marriage is a partnership where we don't get to make decisions that adversely affect our partner

37:14 When our parents tell us "I love you" we believe the lie and go nuts our whole life

48:28 Laziness comes from giving up on trading for imitation approval

55:34 By giving up imitation love, we naturally become responsible


Marriage, Parenting, Personal Growth

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About the author 

Greg Baer, M.D.

I am the founder of The Real Love® Company, Inc, a non-profit organization. Following the sale of my successful ophthalmology practice I have dedicated the past 25 years to teaching people a remarkable process that replaces all of life's "crazy" with peace, confidence and meaning in various aspects of their personal lives, including parenting, marriages, the workplace and more.