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Topics covered in this Video Chat:
00:00 We don't like to feel helpless, so we get angry and feel temporarily powerful
04:40 It is selfish every time we become irritated
05:16 Mistakes are the price we pay for growth, and sometimes they hurt or inconvenience others
13:20 In many things in life you get what you pay for, including hiring a coach or not
18:04 Real listening has no goal for ourselves, it's caring about the other person
22:12 Selfishness is the natural child of starvation and not feeling loved
23:21 Most teenagers aren't "insane", they are in pain - so keep loving them
30:55 Marriage is a partnership where we don't get to make decisions that adversely affect our partner
37:14 When our parents tell us "I love you" we believe the lie and go nuts our whole life
48:28 Laziness comes from giving up on trading for imitation approval
55:34 By giving up imitation love, we naturally become responsible