Florence Foster Jenkins lived from 1868 to 1944, and at the peak of her career as an operatic soprano she sang at many events in New York City, including one at Carnegie Hall. Almost incomprehensibly, however, people attended her performances primarily to laugh at her, since she was well known for her lack of rhythm, unreliable pitch, unprofessional tone, poor pronunciation, and generally poor singing ability.
Florence had a notoriously bad musical ear, so she could not hear the poor quality of her performances. When audiences laughed, she dismissed them as āhoodlums, planted by her rivals. Perhaps to compensate for her musicianship, she often wore elaborate, self-designed costumesāsometimes involving wings and tinselāor threw flowers into the audience.
Most of us live as Florence sang, convinced of knowledge and life skills we do not actually possess. Itās not our lack of ability thatās most problematic. We all fall short in a wide variety of ways, as Florence did musically. What really holds us back is our refusal to SEE our flaws, because then we canāt ever do anything about them. Weāre stuck with repeating our mistakes over and over.
We donāt have to agonize over our mistakes. Florence didnāt need to feel guilty that she didnāt possess an ability found only in a very few operatic stars. We need only recognize our flaws and learn from them.