Discovering Genuine Free Will and True Choices

By Greg Baer M.D.

August 19, 2024

Through my experiences, I've discovered that Real LoveĀ® can empower us to make true choices that lead to genuine happiness.

Join me as we explore how embracing Real LoveĀ® can transform our decision-making and enrich our lives.

The Illusion of Free Will

We are so proud of our ability to make up our own minds, make our own choices, and determine the course of our lives.

We will, in fact, defend to the death our right to choose. Wars are fought to preserve it.

We call it free will, but the truth is that rarely do we actually make genuine choices.

No, in most cases our choices are made for us, and we are relatively helpless.

Recognizing the Forks in the Road

Hundreds of times a day we reach a fork in the road, where we can go to the left or the right. We can choose to be loving or not, truthful or not, fearful or faithful, angry or kind, and so on.

But what if we donā€™t even SEE the fork in the road? What if weā€™ve been raised in a worldā€”which most of us haveā€”where anger, fear, lies, victimhood, and selfishness are so common that they have become normal?

What if all these roads to the leftā€”any choice that is unloving or selfishā€”are all weā€™ve ever known?

Then we wouldnā€™t even SEE the roads to the right: loving, truthful, selfless, and happy.

THEORETICALLY, the ā€œrightā€ roads exist, but if weā€™ve never seen them or walked them, we have no ability to recognize them, much less take them.

True Choices Available but Unseen

When we reach the many forks in the road, for us there IS NO FORK. Practically speaking, there is no choice.

The free will of which we are so proud does not practically exist.

We simply keep taking the road to the left, mindlessly unaware that a choice even exists. We talked about this in a past blog.

As we keep taking left turns, the natural result is that we walk in endless circles, covering the same ground, again and again, frustrated that nothing seems to change. Weā€™re stuck, all the while suffering from the delusion that weā€™re making conscious choices.

Breaking the Cycle with Real LoveĀ®

As we learn to find and feel Real LoveĀ®, we gain the ability both to see and take the roads to the right, the paths that lead to the happiness we all want.

Making true choices is the greatest privilege in life, and with it come the greatest rewards.

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About the author 

Greg Baer, M.D.

I am the founder of The Real LoveĀ® Company, Inc, a non-profit organization. Following the sale of my successful ophthalmology practice I have dedicated the past 25 years to teaching people a remarkable process that replaces all of life's "crazy" with peace, confidence and meaning in various aspects of their personal lives, including parenting, marriages, the workplace and more.

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