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Topics discussed:
00:00 Work makes us happy and strong; even if disabled, we can still help others.
06:25 Masturbation is pain relief without healing the cause of the pain.
12:13 We can learn to stay peaceful no matter what other people do.
14:00 Seeing our selfishness; why selfishness gets worse with time.
20:14 We all have an innate desire to love and share, example of 1-year old.
21:48 Wants vs. needs; gratitude for pain; we don't know what other people need.
26:17 In partnerships, we learn to adjust to each other's craziness and be supportive.
29:43 Pointing out spouse’s anger; there can't be ANY anger in a relationship.
33:35 Woman trying to do Real Love 'right', then seeing it more clearly so she doesn't have to.
34:54 The temptation to indulge in imitation love for a weekend for pain relief.
43:28 Telling the truth is to feel loved and connected; we decide what to share with people.
45:35 Addiction to work, avoidance, safety; necessity of connecting to loving people.
51:32 Father gets to choose what he does with his money; don’t worry or give advice
52:18 Dating a women who doesn't want to marry: is this a deal-breaker?
53:45 Three things to say in a relationship: 1) Here's what I want. 2) Here's what I have to give. 3) What do you need?
